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Post by CKA on Nov 14, 2004 0:14:30 GMT -5
Oh for Christ sake! I was joking. You know me better than that  I know I was just trying to get a rise outta you.  |
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Post by Mickey Martini on Nov 14, 2004 0:15:54 GMT -5
I'm a buddhist and I've been raised by one parent who's technically and another who's buddhist --- religion and cultural values is one thing but the way that they think is different. They believe that the dignity of a girl is important and I somewhat agree with them. But at the same time, I think they should loosen up a little. French-kissing your boyfriend, cuddling up with him, or making out shouldn't be perceived as something degrading. No it shouldn't. My personal philosophy is its wrong to use people for sex, but if you really care about the person, then its ok. Whatever you do. You can be dignified if you're with people who care for you, and sex is more than just getting off |
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Post by ilf21 on Nov 14, 2004 0:19:38 GMT -5
No it shouldn't. My personal philosophy is its wrong to use people for sex, but if you really care about the person, then its ok. Whatever you do. You can be dignified if you're with people who care for you, and sex is more than just getting off Then if you really care for them and let's say they're traditional, you'll respect there decisions right? Sex is a small part of a relationship, it's really the emotional love for each other that's fundamental, first and foremost. |
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Post by Mickey Martini on Nov 14, 2004 0:22:37 GMT -5
I know I was just trying to get a rise outta you. A rise huh. Talk dirty to do that  |
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Post by Mickey Martini on Nov 14, 2004 0:24:05 GMT -5
Then if you really care for them and let's say they're traditional, you'll respect there decisions right? Sex is a small part of a relationship, it's really the emotional love for each other that's fundamental, first and foremost. And that's your belief. And maybe if I hadn't had alot to go with in relationships I agree. But you have very good beliefs too and I respect them |
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Post by ilf21 on Nov 14, 2004 0:27:02 GMT -5
And that's your belief. And maybe if I hadn't had alot to go with in relationships I agree. But you have very good beliefs too and I respect them Yes Michael, I agree with your beliefs too and the fact that you believe it's wrong to use people for sex. If a relationship consisted entirely of it, the results would be catastrophic. But that's enough intellectual talk from me! ;D |
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Post by CKA on Nov 14, 2004 0:28:03 GMT -5
When did Michael say that a relationship could possibly consist solely of sex?
What about afterwards?
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Post by ilf21 on Nov 14, 2004 0:31:20 GMT -5
When did Michael say that a relationship could possibly consist solely of sex? What about afterwards? I know he never said anything about that CKA. I was just pointing out another belief of mine. |
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Post by CKA on Nov 14, 2004 0:33:40 GMT -5
ILF most relationships go through a period where the couple can't keep their hands off eachother, and usually grows into something deeper. That's just the way it goes....
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Post by Mickey Martini on Nov 14, 2004 0:34:52 GMT -5
I find most religions hyporcritical when it comes to sex anyways. Best to do what you feel is right
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Post by ilf21 on Nov 14, 2004 0:35:36 GMT -5
ILF most relationships go through a period where the couple can't keep their hands off eachother, and usually grows into something deeper. That's just the way it goes.... Yah, I know, but that's just a matter of time and it can vary from couple to couple. From 1 day to 10 years.  |
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Post by mcm on Nov 14, 2004 1:00:14 GMT -5
Yeah...
I know a chick who went out with a guy for 4 days until they broke up, but they have sex practically every day.
I find that degrading. Just quickies, too, 5 or 6 days a week.
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Post by Mickey Martini on Nov 14, 2004 1:01:39 GMT -5
Trust me, you're better off never having anything to do with people like that, whatever sex you are
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Post by Atl on Nov 14, 2004 1:18:16 GMT -5
I'm no traditionalist (I kid you not!), but guys should never force the sex on her. Kisses, hugs, little pinches on the ass...acceptable, as long as you aren't forcing her beyond her will.
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Post by CKA on Nov 14, 2004 8:01:11 GMT -5
I'm no traditionalist (I kid you not!), but guys should never force the sex on her. Kisses, hugs, little pinches on the ass...acceptable, as long as you aren't forcing her beyond her will. That's good to know- Atl is against doing anything illegal. |
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